I can only do oral sex will guys like that or not ? a.s.a.p?
Posted on September 6, 2010
I got a boyfriend and were ready to do it we been going out for 2 moths and i talked to my doctor and she said i could only do oral sex. I am not sure how he is going to feel about that. It just b/c i have other health problems and if i got pregnet or something it could kill me and the baby they said.
What should i do ?
i did not know where to put this.
its for ever unless they find a cure for me.
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
what is prohibited? having sex or having a baby?
if you are prohibited from having a baby there are two options you can choose from
if its temporary,
a.) get on the pill – being on the pill and following it regularly will help you not get pregnant. Do this until your safe to have a baby.
if permanent,
b.) ligate – if you are prohibited from having a baby since you have a particular condition that will not be cured as you have said then your best bet is to go get a ligate and bind your self from not having a baby forever.
if you are not allowed to have sex
if its temporary, then its not really a big deal if the guy loves you. Having a girl who gives us head is better than having no one at all. and once you do that he will be thankful
if you cant have sex ever, then that would be a problem since us males have our own needs. you better clear this up with him and to all other lovers you will have since this will really affect your relationship without physical attachment in terms of sex.
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
Birth control
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
suck his d ick and get on the pill
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
Learn to write first. Then after you grow up and mature intellectually you’ll be ready for the sex.
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
be honest with him ,
talk to him .
and tell him these things , and what going on .
you just have to be honest with him .
and hes got to accept the fact .
but tell him why you cant have sex with him and all that .
so just be honest .
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
so you can never have sex EVER? or you just cant have sex like temporarily?
i think you should explain it to him, and tell him that it is a legitimate reason. and you want to protect your body and be healthy. if he really loves you, he will understand and respect you.
and im sure he’ll like the oral in the meantime!
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
Get on the pill like the others said.
or try it in the rear.
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
Well, yes. Guys like oral. No teeth and the blow in blow job doesn’t mean literally blow.
I mean, there is always birth control. And if you or your fetus’s life are endangered its only rational to consider abortion.
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
Tell him this and tell him how serious it could get if you did fall pregnant
if he doesn’t respect that he isn’t worth your time !
Other hand you can use condom get on the pill and have Plan B the next morning
if something was of to happen.
Just make sure your not pressured to do anything you dont want to do :)
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
TROLL.
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
First off, explain your problem to him. If he doesn’t understand it, then he’s not the guy for you. On the off chance that he does understand it, here is a website that can help you with oral sex.
Enjoy!
Hope this helps Drew
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
I’m really amazed your doctor cannot provide you a way of having sex. But otherwise guys love bj’s and I suppose he could get used to being limited to only bj’s. It’s like being told you have to eat cake (assuming you love cake) for the rest of your life. I would worry that you may become tired of giving pleasure without recieving the same pleasure.
September 6th, 2010 - 14:13
If you can’t ever get pregnant for health reasons then get a hysterectomy. (where they remove your female organs inside) This way there will be absolutely 0 chance of pregnancy and you won’t have periods anymore. Also you won’t be able to get cancer in those organs. If this condition is permanent then that is definitely the way to go!!!! Good luck, I hope everything works out for you. And also keep in mind that 2 months is not a long time to have been with your boyfriend, if I were you I would wait longer to have sex with a guy.