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Unprotected Gay Oral Sex and Risk of Herpes?

Posted on August 26, 2010

My partner and I (both males) would like to engage in unprotected fellatio. I know that it would be best if we were both tested for STDs or STIs before engaging in such an activity, but I should like to know the danger in unprotected oral sex if the statuses are unknown. I know that HIV and Hepatitis-B can both be transferred during fellatio, but in this post I'd like to concentrate on Herpes.

(1)
a. If my partner has HSV-1, has no symptoms, and performs fellatio on me (gives me a b-job), what are the chances that I shall contract herpes on my genitals?
b. If has HSV-1, has no symptoms and kisses me on my face and mouth, what are the chances that I shall contract the virus?
c. If he has HSV-1. has no symptoms, and kisses my other body parts (bum in particular) with NO rimming (analingus), what are the chances that I shall contract the virus?

(2)
a. If my partner has HSV-2, has no symptoms, and performs fellatio on me (gives me a b-job), what are the chances that I shall contract herpes on my genitals?
b. If has HSV-2, has no symptoms and kisses me on my face and mouth, what are the chances that I shall contract the virus?
c. If he has HSV-2, has no symptoms, and kisses my other body parts (bum in particular) with NO rimming (analingus), what are the chances that I shall contract the virus?

(3)
a. If my partner has HSV-1, has no symptoms, and I perfom fellatio on him (I give him a b-job), what are the chances that I shall contract herpes in my mouth?
b. If he has HSV-1, has no symptoms, and I kiss his other body parts (bum in particular) with NO rimming (analingus), what are the chances that I shall contract the virus?

(4)
a. If my partner has HSV-2, has no symptoms, and I perfom fellatio on him (I give him a b-job), what are the chances that I shall contract herpes in my mouth?
b. If he has HSV-2, has no symptoms, and I kiss his other body parts (bum in particular) with NO rimming (analingus), what are the chances that I shall contract the virus?

(5)
a. Can HSV-1 be contracted by wrestling?
b. By frottage (rubbing our penises together nude)?
c. By giving him a hand-job?
d. By having him give me a hand-job?

(6)
a. Can HSV-2 be contracted by wrestling?
b. By frottage (rubbing our penises together nude)?
c. By giving him a hand-job?
d. By having him give me a hand-job?

I have tried my best to reduce redundancy and I hope the questions make sense. If something is unclear, let me know and I shall clarify. I realise that this post is quite long, but I still hope you can try to address all the questions. If you would like to answer these privately please feel free to send me an e-mail (This is not soliciting anything other than information regarding sexual health). I have many other questions some similar (regarding HPV instead of Herpes) and some different, and should very much like to talk about them. If you are able and willing to discuss them with me, please feel free to contact me via e-mail. Also if you know of a website or U.S. telephone hotline where I can talk to someone directly, ask questions and receive answers, please post the link or phone number here. Again all I desire is information to help me make informed decisions about my sexual life. Thank you very much for you time and answers.
The use of the word 'b-job' is meant only to be more specific and provide clarity. It is not meant to be offensive, explicit or cause sexual arousal. This whole post is soley meant to gain information regarding sexual health.

can giving oral sex cause infertility?

Posted on August 8, 2010

about a year ago, i gave a boy oral sex. he didnt have any sex partners and neither did i. it was my 1st time ever doing it. and i havent even done anything even close to sexually since then. but when i took health, i learned about all the stds out there that you can get from oral sex. i dont have symptoms and i dont wanna get tested. but im just curious if you can become infertile from giving oral sex to a boy.
im also 16 by the way. im not that young. fyi

Can A Doctor Or Health Clinic Check For Stds In The Mouth?

Posted on August 2, 2010

I AM 27 AND WHEN I WAS YOUNGER I GAVE ORAL SEX TO ABOUT 15 GUYS( BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO HAVE ACTUAL SEX) - I KNOW I SHOULD OF NEVER DONE THAT- I DIDNT KNOW U CAN GET STDS IN YOUR MOUTH BACK THEN.
IS THERE A TEST TO CHECK FOR ALL STDS IN YOUR MOUTH? I WANT TO MAKE SURE THAT I DONT HAVE ANYTHING IN MY MOUTH

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what is safiest way to have oral sex with my wife? can the fluid that comes from women cause health problem?

Posted on July 11, 2010

can it cause cancer? i am talking about if here is no STDS? i would like to get answers from those who know it , if you don't know please don't answer?

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what is safiest way to have oral sex with my wife? can the fluid that comes from women cause health problem?

Posted on July 8, 2010

can it cause cancer? i am talking about if here is no STDS? i would like to get answers from those who know it , if you don't know please don't answer?

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